Grief
My nephew was recently murdered in Salt Lake City, UT on July 7th, 2011 at 12:07 A.M., and they haven't found the person who committed the crime.It was a very sad occasion, however, on the same day, my niece gave birth to a baby girl at 2:22 A.M. My sister is still very sad, as is the rest of family, including myself. I am aware that Heavenly Father called him back, but, I need some advice on how to console her, she is an inactive member, and does not understand why god took him back. I feel she has hidden anger and resentment toward the person who did this, but she says she has no hatred for him/her. I do not know what to say to her, any ideas?
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Comment by Connie Corwitt on July 28, 2011 at 11:10am -
Thank you both for your truly inspiring comments! They are deeply appreciated...without my membership in the only true church on the face of this earth, I would not be able to cope. Thank you once again, and I will take your advice as a blessing.
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Comment by Salli on July 22, 2011 at 6:15pm -
There is very little that can be said at a tragic time like this. You may feel the need to say something to support your sister, but answers may not come for many years. Even more than words your sister may simply need to know that you are near and that you care. Be with her more than you normally would during this earliest grieving period; sit with her, cry with her, perhaps ask if you can pray with her. I have learned that time can heal all wounds and though this is one of the most heartbreaking griefs any family could be called upon to endure, trust that feelings will soften, hearts will open, and miracles can occur. The Lord has always known your family would face this trial at this time and He knows why it happened, as well as the wonderful things that can result. What a blessing to have a sweet baby born the very night your nephew was taken. That is not a coincidence! Look for the tender mercies, they will continute to bless your lives. My prayers are with you, and your sister, and your other family members.
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Comment by Dorothy Jean Hill on July 19, 2011 at 2:12pm -
My Dear Sister, My prayers are with you . I have lost both parents,all four Grandparents so my lost is very deep. My Mother was the hardest to take because she and Daddy were on their way home from a visit to my Grand mother Tarr. A Truck came upon them speeding. The driver was blind in one eye and was not to drive on the highway. My Mother was killed instantly Dad got cuts and brusing. Al thought the shock was great I know that it was God way of saying,"Dorothy you have done enough it is time for you to come home". That though keep me for crying and still helps me today. I understand how difficult it is to confort for non members but your strength will be a good examply for the rest of your family. The best thing to you is let them know you love them,your prayers as with them, and give them time to adjust. Love and prayers Jean Hill
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