The Story

December 2006
I remember seeing him with one of his friends at the local DQ.
He came and sat down by me and lacey.
we talked for near dang an hour or two..
when they got up to leave I remember thinking...he may be the one.
He asked for my number... and I gave it to him.. then he went to give me his and I said no no no you call me... thats how things work now days.
...as he walked towards his call...his number flashed on my phone...
i answered. giggled. and then told him he better put this number to good use now.

January 2007
He was dating someone else some what at the time...however things with her went south and he asked me to hang out.  he came over to my house on sunday january 14...we talked and he did goofy things like zip up his coat over his head and then laughed...once it hit mid night my parents told us time to wrap things up...i walked him out to his car...it was now past mid night january 15, 2007... we kissed for the first time.  Little did we know that three years later the judge would be signing our divorce papers on january 15.

Februar 2007
We dated.  I was a sr in High school, he was a freshman in college.. we spent every waking moment we could together.  Feb 14, 2007 was our first official offical date.

March 2007
The first exchanges of I love you... at our friends house on his couch.  The ex had leaned over.. and said gues what?  I replied what?...I love you ashley.  At the begining of march he had recieved his mission call.. he would be leaving in april.

April 2007
I slowly anticipated him leaving... when april 18 rolled around he was the only person I wanted to see.
We said our good byes.. and he was gone for two years.

I moved to college...I wrote him every week... Now that I look back it was doomed from the begining.  I tried to forget those two years with out him. I met some amazing people, learned a lot about myself, and had drastically changed.  But my heart still loved him.

April 2009
He had gotten home...we talked about marriage while he was on his mission.  The day he got home i called the temple and set our date...september was when we were going to get married. He was okay with it, I was okay with it..

May 2009
We got engaged May 14th 2009...three weeks after he had gotten home off his mission.

During the summer up until we got married He and I fought a lot.  Looking back it was a horrid decision to get married but He kept reassuring me that we were fighting because Satan didnt want us to get married in the temple.

September 2009
We were married sept 12, 2009 for time and all eternity in the Rexburg ID temple.

October 2009
The fighting hadnt started yet... by the end of october we were killing each other ever waking moment..

November 2009
I dont even remember kissing at all...its sad.  Our emotions were worn out..and we were on the edge with each other all the time, he left before I woke up, came home after I left... we avoided the hell out of each other.

November 19.
He packed an over night bag and spent the weekend at his parents house.

November 23.
Went to Idaho Falls to go christmas shopping...went home in my car.. he stayed down with his brother...
I received the text message that changed my life.  i want a divorce.

November 25
Meeting with the bishop was unsucessful.. He refused to do counseling said he didnt love me anymore, and called me a whore.

November 26
Happy thanks giving family. I have officially blocked this day from memory. I do not know what happened.

November 27
knock knock knock...Is ashley here?...No... well are you her mother?....Yes....I will keep it in the record that she was served her divorce papers and her mother recieved them.

I pulled up to the house.. walked in and bawled.

Eight dreadful weeks later...
January 15, 2010
Exactly three years had passed from our first kiss Jan 15...
I recieved a phone call from my laywer...
Ashley as of right now you are a free woman.


March 2011

21. single. divorced. MORMON... could life be any more complicated?

I am always open to questions.
So please if you have any ask.